<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Dorothy O'Leary MFT]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dorothy O'Leary MFT]]></description><link>https://tombreunig.wixstudio.com/from-template/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2026 01:06:54 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.dorothyolearymft.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[What is Internal Family Systems (IFS)?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a therapeutic approach developed by Richard Schwartz in the 1980s that conceptualizes the mind as naturally composed of multiple sub-personalities or "parts." Rather than viewing the psyche as a single, unified entity, IFS proposes that we all have an internal family of parts, each with its own perspective, feelings, memories, and role. At the core of this system is what IFS calls the "Self" - an undamaged, compassionate center of consciousness that has the...]]></description><link>https://www.dorothyolearymft.com/post/living-a-fuller-life</link><guid isPermaLink="false">698fcc7cc4f6e29da2a11f58</guid><pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2026 17:06:04 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_25e218a68cae48e98a21198d1280a6bd~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>tbreunig1</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[How Can We Deal with Family Estrangement?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Family estrangement represents one of the most painful and complex issues therapists encounter in their practice. Whether the estrangement is initiated by the client or imposed upon them, it often carries profound grief, guilt, shame, and ambivalence. Therapists must navigate the tension between societal pressures that prioritize family unity and the reality that some relationships are genuinely harmful. The therapeutic approach requires avoiding both the reflexive assumption that families...]]></description><link>https://www.dorothyolearymft.com/post/finding-balance-in-your-family-life-and-career</link><guid isPermaLink="false">698fcc7cc4f6e29da2a11f56</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Sep 2024 16:05:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ff6af0e32be14c2a9d2677aff5238ed7.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>tbreunig1</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to Offer A True Apology]]></title><description><![CDATA[Take full responsibility without deflecting.  Say "I was wrong" without adding "but" statements or excuses. Avoid phrases like "I'm sorry you felt that way" or "I'm sorry if I hurt you," which shift blame to the other person's perception rather than owning your actions. Acknowledge the specific harm you caused.  Show that you understand exactly what you did and how it affected the other person. This demonstrates that you've truly listened and reflected, not just offering a generic apology to...]]></description><link>https://www.dorothyolearymft.com/post/take-control-of-your-life-and-finances</link><guid isPermaLink="false">698fcc7cc4f6e29da2a11f57</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Sep 2024 16:04:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_84a5b9f348aa4726a7827eeba31fd3bc~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>tbreunig1</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>